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3 Easy Steps to becoming whoever the F*** You Want to be.

Updated: Apr 2, 2022

“You are not IN the universe, you ARE the universe, an intrinsic part of it. Ultimately you are not a person, but a focal point where the universe is becoming conscious of itself. What an amazing miracle.”

Eckhart Tolle


Your entire experience on this planet is just that… your experience. In discovering your true, "highest" self, it is imperative to begin observing the future you desire (and not the one that might or might not be). The creation of this mental outlook is constructed from the information you have gathered thus far in your life, as well as a small dose of imagination! The more you have observed and experienced, the more you have to work with. Envision a future that gives you chills of great feelings! One full of the 'good' and completely absent of the 'bad.'

Tip: Constructing an optimal reality is easier done in the stillness. Silence brings clarity and opportunity to expand your perspective without distraction, which can lead to optimal focus on a creative level. Open up to what you really want… What emotions, values, and patterns are central to your fulfillment? Find a silent space and draw out some of these daydream scenarios of a perfect lifestyle. Feelings, emotions, thoughts... imagine what it actually feels like be alive in this ideal reality you've created. While this reality may not be happening (yet), the feelings and joy you experience just from the thoughts are 100% real, and now you've allowed for an optimal reality to enter your potential future.

“When you are physically ‘being one with the future you in the present moment’ that you dreamed about, you will experience the bounty of the new reality. There will be a response from a greater order.”

Dr. Joe Dispenza


Now, it’s time to decide. Don’t worry.. you don’t need to choose only one dream-reality. Instead, the decision is to make up your mind not to give focus to anything less; to stop giving ANY focus to what you don’t want. Place every drop of focus into the new reality. This updated version of you is going to want creative space… so make space for the 'new' by removing the 'no longer necessary' articles in your environment (Ex. relationships, conversations, feelings, etc.). This part can get a little sticky.. especially with old emotions.. which provides a great opportunity to practice your creative abilities. Commit to trusting the truth of your newly envisioned reality by practicing the emotions, patterns, and values that accompany it. Delight in every detail of this reality and choose to ONLY align with desired outcomes. When you make up your mind, decide to make it into what feels best.

“You must ask for what you really want. Don’t go back to sleep.”



Once you are feeling aligned and 'at one' with your highest self, allow this new mindset to flow naturally into RESULTS! The emotions of effort and striving are seldom the stuff you are looking for, so simply refuse them if they show up. Remember that your vision is your destiny and no one knows you better than you do. Existence is yours to behold and you are allowed to do so effortlessly and free of guilt. Discovery is the stuff of expansion so don’t freak out at the new and unexpected. Follow life’s outcomes willingly by writing them into your existence.

Evolution is all about adaptation.. and allowing for adaptability expands the entire experience. Allowing the grand plan unfold with excitement feels amazing when you don’t keep poking at it! Allow yourself, in each moment, to establish the emotions of the self YOU want to be. This does not involve ‘doing anything' to force the outcome. Rather, we focus on action without action, or allowing for the experiences to unfold as they inevitably will. Make space for even better life experiences, understanding with certainty that each moment is the perfect opportunity to expand into Whoever The Fuck you want to be.

“The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.”

Alan Watts

Remember to feel into your optimal emotional state by envisioning your dreams, then make up your mind to flow into your destined alignment. Easy Peasy! Becoming whoever the fuck you want is a choice, a practice, and an experience … all of which are pretty fun. Allowing yourself to experience your daydream today creates tomorrow is a welcome alignment :)

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